seeing people say shit like “i wish i as born gay” or “i wish i was born a different gender” makes me s o sad bc ill bet you dimes to dollars that person is on the lgbt spectrum but because of ingrained phobias and the way media portrays people like us, it feels like an insurmountable implausibility, when its really not. if you wish you were gay, or trans, or whatever, then like, maybe you should give the introspection a chance. compulsive heteronormativity is real and it can truly make you believe youre cis and straight and that you never need to think more into it than that.
honestly this post is extremely real
like if you find yourself thinking “boy, i wish i was the other gender” then i’ve got some great news for you
This is how most people start questioning. If you find yourself wishing you could date the opposite gender or wishing you were another gender to your AGAB then it’s at the very least worth looking into, please don’t be afraid to do so! If you find out you are non cis/het then great! If you find out that you are cis/het that’s also great! There’s literally nothing wrong with experimenting!!! It doesn’t make you a “trender”! It just makes you a human being!!